“Girls, you know your dad isn’t really—”
“It’s okay,” Sophie interrupted. “We’ll show you.”
They each took one of my hands and led me to the basement door. The air changed the second we stepped inside.
Cooler. Staler. The old wooden steps creaked under our weight.
The dim lightbulb overhead flickered like something out of a horror film. But what I saw at the bottom stopped me in my tracks. In the far corner of the basement sat a small table.
On it were drawings, stuffed animals, dried flowers, and in the center — an urn. Sophie pointed to it proudly. “That’s Daddy.”
“Hi, Daddy,” Mia added, patting the urn like it was a pet.
My throat tightened. “You come visit him too now,” Sophie said, turning to me with a small smile. “So he won’t be lonely.”
I knelt beside them, hugging them both close.
“You’ve made a beautiful place for him,” I whispered. “And I think he’d be very proud of you.”
That night, when Rachel got home, I told her everything. Her face crumpled as the story spilled out.
“I didn’t know,” she said, tears running down her cheeks. “I didn’t think they even remembered he was down there. I just… I needed somewhere to put him that wasn’t right in the middle of everything.”
“You weren’t wrong,” I told her gently.
“But I think it’s time we bring him back upstairs.”
The next morning, we created a new space in the living room. We placed the urn between two family photos. The girls helped pick out fresh flowers and added new drawings.
That evening, Rachel sat them down and explained. “Your daddy isn’t just in that urn,” she said softly. “He’s in our stories, in the way we love each other, in our memories.”
Sophie nodded seriously.
Mia clutched her koala tighter. “Can we still say hi to him every day?” Mia asked. “Of course,” Rachel replied, her voice cracking again.
“Every single day.”
From then on, every Sunday evening, we lit a candle near the urn. The girls would show their new drawings, and Rachel would tell them a story about their dad — his love for baking, his terrible dance moves, his deep, silly laugh. And I’d sit with them, knowing I wasn’t replacing anyone.
I wasn’t filling a space — I was building something new on top of love that already existed. And somehow, that felt like the most important role I could ever play.
