I’m in an arranged marriage, but I really love my husband. We even have a baby girl. Today my in-laws invited us to their house.
My husband disappeared for some time, so I went looking for him. I saw him talking to his parents and crying, and I froze at the doorway, unsure whether to step in or walk away silently. His father gently placed a hand on his shoulder, whispering, “You’re a good husband and father.
You did everything right.” My husband, usually calm and composed, broke down further. “I love her,” he said between tears, “but I’ve always worried that she only stayed because it was arranged. What if she never truly chose me?”
My heart ached.
I had no idea he ever doubted himself—doubted us. I quietly stepped forward and whispered his name. His eyes widened in surprise and fear, as if he’d been caught revealing a secret he had buried deep inside.
Without hesitation, I hugged him tightly. “I didn’t just stay,” I said softly. “I chose you every day after that.
I fell in love with the way you take care of our daughter, the way you bring me tea when I’m tired, and how you say little prayers for us when you think I’m asleep.”
His mother teared up, placing her hand over her heart. His father smiled with quiet relief. My husband held me close like he never wanted to let go again.
That day, in his parents’ home, surrounded by love and vulnerability, something changed—we were no longer just two people brought together by tradition. We were two souls who had finally spoken their hidden fears and found reassurance. Our arranged marriage became a love story we were now writing together, intentionally and wholeheartedly.
And for the first time, I saw him not just as my husband—but as the man I would choose, again and again, with no hesitation.
