You have done nothing wrong. After all the heartache, you deserve to be happy. Remember that you are not their emotional crutch.
You even gave them part of the inheritance. Congratulations on your twins. Go live your life in peace.”
One more user pointed out, “I can’t help but think that they blame OP somehow for her death.
Doesn’t matter what the actual circumstances are, because grief isn’t always rational. OP, I wish you much happiness. I’d stop answering all of the texts, or at least make her wait longer for a reply, which should be as generic as possible.”
Some other user wrote, “Also, how dare this woman say ’don’t forget your dead family’ like that is incredibly small-minded and just insulting to be honest.
That makes me so mad and sad, thinking about someone saying that to me about a lost loved one. I would go bananas.”
Another person said, “You’re not guilty. I am a widow, and I had to end my relationship with my in-laws because they were also incredibly negative and invasive.
I promise you that your life will be easier and your new wife and children will be happier if you end this relationship and move on with your life. Trust me, there is no purpose in continuing to communicate with people who can’t find happiness in your happiness.”
