They made the choice to cut you off when you were struggling, and now they’re trying to turn things around, expecting you to provide for them as if nothing ever happened.
You built your career on your own—through hard work—and you’re under no obligation to let them back into your life on their terms, especially when they’ve never supported you the way you needed them to.
It’s completely natural to feel conflicted, especially with the pressure of family dynamics and emotional manipulation.
But you’re allowed to stand firm in your boundaries. It’s clear that you’ve already expressed your feelings, and they’ve chosen to ignore or dismiss them. They can’t just come back into your life when it’s convenient for them or when they want something from you.
You’ve already proven that you can achieve great things on your own, and you don’t need to allow them to dictate your path now.
They might try to guilt you or manipulate your emotions, but remember that their past actions speak louder than their words.
Their sudden interest in “family support” after years of abandonment is a reflection of their needs, not a genuine desire to repair your relationship.
Take care of yourself and continue moving forward with the confidence that you’re doing the right thing.
With empathy and understanding,
Source: Brightside
